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      <image:caption>October 2020. A day later, we learned we conceived baby #4.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Medical experiences in my pregnancy after stillbirth - December 2021: The moment I realized the definition of “live birth”. Over the years I always found it to be such a funny phrase, that “live” had to be added. Naively, I would wonder “aren’t all births live births?</image:title>
      <image:caption>As I filled out this form, I realized that I only had one previous live birth despite being in my third pregnancy.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - One year of loving Blair from afar - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>On June 12, 2020 at 9:27pm, Blair Elise Strohmayer was born. Our beautiful third daughter.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Talking about death to twin toddlers, a year later - Before we knew that baby #4 was a girl, Blair was still their only little sister. While learning about the five senses during preschool, there was a page with a baby sister and a lesson on the sense of sight. The book read “When I look at my baby sister, I use my sense of sight. I am seeing.” I added my own spin to this page to share that for lots of families, they can see their baby sisters. Other families, like ours, cannot. They are not in our homes the same way, but that these babies are still part of our families.</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - You’re invited to celebrate Blair Elise - You’re invited to grab a cupcake or your choice of treat and enjoy it for Blair Elise Strohmayer’s first birthday.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Share a photo using the hashtag #celebratingBlairElise or keep the memories with just you. Either way, we’re honored. This will be the first of many years that we hope to continue this tradition. We credit Meg Walker and her precious son Jacob for the idea!</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - New logo reveal: “My four daughters” - 2021 Logo: "My four daughters"</image:title>
      <image:caption>2021 Logo ”My four daughters”</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - New logo reveal: “My four daughters” - 2020 Logo: "My three daughters"</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Pregnant after stillbirth: Second trimester thoughts</image:title>
      <image:caption>Four hearts for my four children. My phone’s desktop photo for this second trimester.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Pregnant after stillbirth: First Trimester Thoughts</image:title>
      <image:caption>A watercolour womb, depicting the uterus after a birth. The simple heart shaped hole represents the love that is left behind after a miscarriage, termination or intrauterine death. - Emma Plunkett's Art Gallery.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - New pregnancy after stillbirth with letters to our four children</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Sharing our daughter’s autopsy results after stillbirth</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Remembering skin-to-skin time with our stillborn daughter - art by ChaneenSaliee</image:title>
      <image:caption>art by ChaneenSaliee</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Light a candle with me this October 15th - October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. Please join me and other families around the world on Thursday, October 15th at 7pm local time as we participate in a Global Wave of Light. To join, simply light a candle at 7pm and keep it burning for at least an hour in honor and in remembrance of all loved and longed for babies gone too soon .</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - To my pregnant friends and those with new babies - Blair Elise Strohmayer in utero, 26 weeks</image:title>
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      <image:title>Blog: Mothering Through Grief - Three babies. Three birth stories.</image:title>
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